Showing posts with label Affairs Of The Heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Affairs Of The Heart. Show all posts

Friday, January 1, 2016

New Year, New Post

As you may have noticed, I have been away from my blog and writing for way too long. I was on a very long hiatus, some of it by choice, some of it not by choice and most of it just by circumstances. Most of it was due to personal things going on in my life and not knowing wether it was appropriate or not to write about it, the other part of it was worrying wether it would be used against me for telling my story and the other part was just life keeping me away with kids, school and working, that pretty much filled up my days, as you can imagine. Then all the personal bits of going through a long divorce, helping my kids through it, repairing and rebuilding my life.

I have decided that with the New Year here, this is my opportunity to jump back into something that is positive, is good for me and something that I enjoy doing. I know that I am supposed to be doing this and have made it a priority because there have been too many times where I happen to have free time and just sitting down and wondering what to do or on the computer thinking I should be writing about that particular topic. I didn't because I thought it was too late to jump back in. I also want to get back into writing for freelance jobs.

That's the thing about our mindsets. Once it is made up, there is no changing it. Until the next wave of circumstances happen to wash over us. Then we rise above it and are renewed with different thoughts than what we once had. This is me, all the time.

I know that I have a lot to share and offer. I have my opinions and thoughts about stuff and I have ideas and resources to share. It is my hope that you will help support me in my endeavor by being engaged with me on here by adding your comments, sharing things you find worthy and suggest other things, as well. I know you get the point, so I will stop right there.

It is my goal to post something every day but we know that is not always realistic and possible, so at a minimum of once a week.

It is my intention to post from my heart and mind, my own speaking. I hope that I will have the ability and sense to know just how much to write or post is enough and not too much.

I also want to post and share other links and articles that I feel are worthy of sharing on here.

I know that everything may not be of interest to you and that is okay, it is here to help me, too. This is a daily work in progress.

I am ready and I am doing this, right now!

Currently, while on school break, I am in the process of cleaning out the paper clutter in my office and also making a Vision Board to help me make a good running start to a successful new year. I will be posting my Vision Board, as it comes along. I will be posting tips, tricks and ideas that I am doing to help the process with the paper clutter. I am also trying to grow my photography business in between going to school for a dual degree in Photography and also Graphic Design, which should go nicely with my current degree in Computer Information Technology.

I have not decided how much personal things I want to be writing about. I have been thinking about this for a long, long time now. We all know there are people on Social Media who do not know the boundaries of posting personal information, however at the same time, it could help someone. So what do you suggest? Do you have rules or recommendations on how much is too much? Does a blog have different rules than on Social Media?

Happy New Year! Let's make it a successful, positive and prosperous one!



Saturday, July 20, 2013

Pot Luck: Inside a Beverly Hills Cannabis Club Dinner Party

20/20: Pot Luck: Inside a Beverly Hills Cannabis Club Dinner Party

I was watching 20/20 tonight and the show was called: I escaped my life. One of the segments was about a 53 year old woman and mom of two girls who also runs a public relations firm, is a medical marijuana user, founded the Beverly Hills Cannabis Club and is an activist to legalize cannabis in this country.

The moms of this club have battled cancer, chronic pain and crippling anxiety. They say that what got them feeling normal and healthy again wasn't prescription drugs but marijuana did.

They say that they do it to take the edge off and to remain functional and checked in as parents, not to get baked out of their minds. They feel that just as other parents might choose how much to drink around their kids, they are the only ones who can judge what the line between being stoned and buzzed is. They say that they struggle with how to best educate their children on the subject of drug use, just like any parent.

The moms say they try to be responsible and healthy by choosing to vaporize the marijuana. Using small mechanical devices which look like cigarettes, it heats the cannabis just enough to make the THC active and doesn't produce as much harmful smoke.

At the parties, they create edibles, consisting of fettuccine and chicken with marinara sauce made from cannabis infused olive oil and strawberry shortcake.

So, I was not surprised to hear about this because of the fact that Marijuana is becoming legal in more and more states, nor about the fact that they mentioned how happy they felt and how it took them out of depression. I was glad that they mentioned how they were like zombies and checked out when they were using prescription drugs. This is something that seems to get overlooked quite frequently, in my opinion. Prescription drugs are being abused and I have heard of parents taking and even abusing them. They are laid up in bed all day and it becomes more of an excuse, unfortunately, to the kids expense.

I do worry for these parents for the fact that they are doing this in front of their kids. Vaporizer or not, I don't feel that is ever a good idea. Although, I don't know why it would be any more appropriate or okay for someone to smoke or drink in front of or around kids. But, I guess we do it and that is okay. There is still a big stigma in this country about marijuana use. It will be interesting to see what comes of this in the years to come.

Watch the video and let me know what you think or have to say about this topic. Do you think it can make you a better parent?

Friday, July 19, 2013

Personality is half the battle

I had an interview for an entry level C# programmer position and had to fill out some sort of personality sheet, also called a PI. The Predictive Index or PI is a scientifically validated behavioral assessment that accurately predicts workplace behaviors.

The PI offers a clear understanding of the unique behavioral needs and drives that make people work. The Predictive Index/PI assessment is administered in the form of an adjective checklist and takes approximately 10 minutes to complete. The results provide managers with detailed information into the behavioral drives of people.

Predictive Index is a a proven management tool used to improve performance and productivity of people at all levels of the organizations. PI gives you the power and knowledge to better motivate, lead and utilize your people to achieve your company's goals. Predictive Index or PI is a scientifically validated assessment that accurately predicts workplace behaviors and tendencies. It is a companion instrument that allows managers to identify the behavioral requirements of any position

These are my results:

Personality Index
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Personality Index
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After feeling uncomfortable and out of my element for some time because I kept doubting myself, this is a good way to end the interview. This was a very special way for me because not only did I know these things about myself, but this test reaffirmed to me what I already knew about myself. I also loved how beautifully it was written and put these in such a good light because sometimes, when people say these things to me or about me, I take interpret it in a more negative light.I am taking this information to heart because these are things my parents always said about me. They are passed away now and as I was reading the PI, I could hear my parents voices saying it. It was like they were right there with me.

I absolutely love the idea. It can be used to motivate employees or gain insight about a potential employee. The way that it was written did motivate me.
What do you think about Predictive Indexes?

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Which Kardashian Are You?


Facebook wants to know: Which Kardashian are you?

I don't care what people think or have to say about my divorce (mainly my ex's family). I will tell you which one I am not. I am not the girl that spent a ridiculous amount of money on a lavished televised wedding only months after meeting and then calls it quits two and a half months later. I am the girl that stuck it out and tried to make it work for 13 years so unless you lived my daily life and endured what I had to, don't judge me.

Which Kardashian Are You?
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Saturday, October 29, 2011

STDmatching.com - #1 community for STD support and dating

stdmatching.com - community for STD support and dating

I think they have found their niche in the dating market here. I never thought that something like this could exist but then again, why not?

STDMatching.com is the #1 community for STD support and dating. The best, largest, completely anonymous and most trusted dating site for STD singles and friends in the world.

70 million people are living with STDs in the U.S. alone, as well as an estimated 400 million people worldwide. Are you one of them?

When you have Herpes, HPV, HIV/AIDS, or any other STD, it can feel like you are all alone in the world. Do you wish there was a place where you didn't have to worry about being rejected or discriminated?

This is a warm-hearted and exclusive community for singles and friends with STDs. Here you can get on with your life and meet new friends, partners or potential spouses, or learn about STD medical information. If you just need to find someone to talk to or offer help or advice, this is the best place. Never feel lonely again!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Crystal Beaudry's Birthday Wish

Crystal Beaudry's Birthday Wish
“I'm turning 30 on October 14th and I want to To require an automatic Amber Alert be issued for any child under 12 years old missing 5 hours or more”

WHY I CARE ABOUT THIS CAUSE:
Because I know what it is like not to have your child with you. I use to say to myself how I would love just 5 minutes to myseld, now i ask for 5 minutes with her. She was not kidnapped but taken from me from her father and now I wish I had her here with me I love you Brittany.

I'm asking for $10 or whatever you can afford!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Night Owl Mama; Where are Your Babies When you Get Out of the Car?

Where are Your Babies When you Get Out of the Car?
A Special Thank You to Night Owl Mama for writing this article about leaving children in the car and her tips on preventing this from happening to her and her children, I enjoyed this blog post. I know that we all get busy, but let's keep our heads on.

Where are Your Babies When you Get Out of the Car?
I'm sick to my stomach. I can't believe what I am reading and seeing in the news. Countless times I have seen the news that children are left in carseats or in a seat belt and a parent, caregiver or family member has forgotten to take the child out of the car when they get out. Many of these cases the child is under age 1 and in a rear facing carseat, thus you can't see them. Parents who are forgetting their children are not stung out on drugs or up partying all night. Many of these Parents are educated people. The thought of this terrifies me. We as parents have so much on our minds and are lacking sleep, clear heads and have alot on our plates that we are not taking the extra precautions to make sure that the back seat is empty before walking away from the car.

HERE'S A list of extra pecautionary measures that I take when my children are in the back seat.

~1 I leave my purse in the back seat with them. My Purse is thing 1st I Grab when ever I get out of the car. If I can't find it I look in the back seat.

~2. I put the diaper bag in the front seat. I never have the diaper bag with me unless the baby is with me.

~3. I leave my coat in the back seat. In the winter driving with my coat on always bothers me. SO I take it off after the car warms up and put it in the back seat. Getting out the car I'm going to freeze my butt off so I reach in the back to get my coat.

~4. Back when I used to drop my son off at daycare their policy was to call if I was more than a half hour late from dropping him off. This will prevent accidentally not dropping a child off.

How we can all help by being Nosey. Look in cars as you walk through parking lots. See an infant seat take a walk by and look. Children are not to be left in a car unattended under 6 without the supervision of a person who is 12 years of age or older. See a child or children alone in a vehicle call the authority's.

Cars left in the Hot sun can reach inside temperatures up to 140 degree's. No one could survive that. I like to put up Sun visors and crack the windows when I get out. To keep the car and inside seats cooler. That's for me when I return. If you get yourself into a routine we can make sure that this doesn't happen to us or others.



Friday, June 5, 2009

S.D. rancher claims $232.1 million Powerball 23-year-old man's family recently had a mobile home repossessed

S.D. rancher claims $232.1 million Powerball
23-year-old man's family recently had a mobile home repossessed...

I am sure glad that someone who really needed the money won it. My hope for him is that he spends it well and doesn't turn this happy story into a tragedy. Congratulations Neal! And don't forget to share the wealth...you can't take that money with you when you leave this earth! ;O)

Neal Wanless, 23, accepts a ceremonial check for winning a $232 million Powerball lottery jackpot, Friday in Pierre, S.D. He'll take home $88.5 million in a lump-sum payment after taxes are deducted.

PIERRE, S.D. - A 23-year-old rancher whose family has fallen behind in their taxes and recently had a mobile home repossessed claimed a $232.1 million Powerball jackpot on Friday, one of the largest undivided jackpots in U.S. lottery history.

Neal Wanless, who lives on his family's 320-acre ranch near Mission, S.D., bought the winning ticket in the nearby town of Winner late last month during a trip to buy livestock feed. He will take home $88.5 million in a lump sum payment after taxes are deducted.

Wanless, who did not speak publicly about the win until Friday, spoke for only a couple of minutes at a South Dakota Lottery ceremony Friday, reading a prepared statement. He was wearing a big black cowboy hat and had a huge grin on his face.

"I want to thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity and blessing me with this great fortune. I will not squander it," he said.

Wanless said he intends to use the money to help those in need. "My family has been helped by the community and I intend to repay that help many times over."

He told lottery officials that since winning, he has spent his time preparing to bale hay and doing other jobs around his family's ranch.

Wanless said he intends to continue ranching, albeit on a larger plot of land. He said he recently told his horse, Eleanor, that "It'd be nice if we go for a longer ride than usual on a bigger ranch of our own."

Wanless' is among the highest undivided lottery jackpot wins in U.S. history. An Oregon family turned $40 worth of tickets into $340 million Powerball prize in 2005, and at least four other winners won larger jackpots than Wanless'.

'Real meager means'
Friends and neighbors described the Wanlesses as a hardworking family with little money.

"I hope they enjoy their money," said county assessor Cathy Vrbka, a family friend. "They work hard, backbreaking hard work."

Dave Assman, who owns farmland next to the Wanless' ranch, said he's happy they won't have to worry about money again.

"They've been real short on finances for a long time," Assman said. "They are from real meager means, I guess you'd say."

The Wanlesses raised cattle, sheep and horses on their ranch is in eastern Todd County, the nation's seventh-poorest county in 2007, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Much of the county is tribal land governed by the Rosebud Sioux Tribe.

But neighbors said Arlen Wanless, 54, has made a living in recent years mainly by buying and selling scrap metal.

Dan Clark, an auctioneer from Winner and a friend of more than two decades, said Arlen Wanless helped him at many auctions by buying things no one else wanted.

"Over the last 20 years, Arlen's bailed me out a lot of times," Clark said.

He said Arlen Wanless had trouble earning money when the price of iron dropped.

Hard times
Todd County records show that the family owes $3,552 in property taxes on the 360 acres of land for taxes payable in 2007, 2008 and 2009. The family had a mobile home repossessed last year.

Since word spread that the Wanless family had won the lottery jackpot, the gate to the dirt driveway that leads to the family home has been closed and padlocked.

The winning ticket was purchased at the Ampride convenience store, which will get a $50,000 bonus for selling the lucky ticket. Sharon Ulmer, manager of the store said she is glad the Wanless family won.

"From what I understand they don't have a lot, so the money definitely went to a good place," Ulmer said. "I know it went to a good home. They can use it."


Sunday, May 3, 2009

Staples: They have what we need...for "the flu"

It seems everyone these days are ca$$hing in on the Swine Flu Virus Epidemic. Shawn was saying the day before yesterday that CVS was selling those breathing masks that painters use for around $5.00. And now, Staples has this ad right on their homepage.

Staples is now advertising that they have what you need to protect yourself from The Flu. Really? Seriously? Since when did an office supply store become a pharmacy? And by the way, did you notice how they said "Protect yourself from "the flu""? There is a difference from "the flu" and "The Swine Flu"...did you notice how they are capitalizing on "the flu" but didn't Capitalize "The Flu"? {:o)

Gotta love marketing!!

I am thankful everyone I know has not caught any of the flu's.



Inside Edition - Real Estate Infomercial Investigation - John Beck

If you are up late for any reason, you have probably seen these John Clark Infomercials. I have gone to bed with them on because that is the only thing on tv. (We have basic cable - $5.00 cable tv plan.) I remember thinking how great it sounded and what if it was really true? My husband never likes infomercials and thinks that they are all scams. I am beginning to think that he may be right. (Don't tell him I said that.)

And then it gets me thinking, what if there are infomercials that are really true, no gimmick. John Clark very well may have screwed up the integrity of everyone else's business. Because of this, people will always beware...thanks to all the snakes out there.

I am thankful that I don't have the money to invest in something like this because if I did, I may have been one of those unfortunate people that got caught in his scam.

I found it very interesting that Inside Edition's Video showed what the house REALLY looked like and interviewed the people who fixed them up. They said that the houses DID cost that much, but they were un-inhabitable. It costed the buyers 3 times the amount they paid for the house to fix it to make it inhabitable and look like the pictures the infomercial shows.

I also love that they went and interviewed the owners. The infomercial states that the cost of the houses was the amount they owed on the back taxes and the houses were up for foreclosure. When Inside Edition interviewed the owners, they said that was NOT true. They did NOT lose their house to foreclosure at all.

One woman they interviewed said that she paid her taxes, but the city had applied her taxes to the wrong property, the city's fault. They fixed the problem and she did NOT lose her house. She sold her house on her own, it did NOT foreclose.

It's funny (not really) how you can stretch the truth and twist it for your own benefit. It is awful and dishonest. Why lie?

I will be honest, though. I have seen the infomercial many times and they did a great job explaining how it was possible to buy a beautiful house for under $600. I guess next time, I will be better off just turning the tv off.

Thank you so much to Inside Edition for uncovering this story/scam. You have saved one person - ME!

The moral of this story; Buyer Beware, If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is, Don't believe everything you see/hear, Turn the Boob Tube OFF!

Real Estate Infomercial Investigation:
ORIGINAL AIRDATE: 4/28/2009

On his infomercial John Beck talks about a two story home purchased at a tax sale for only $521.56.

However, what the infomercial didn't show was what this beautiful home used to look like.

After ten long years and more than $100,000 in renovations, the home's current owner has transformed the once "uninhabitable" home.

Also featured in John Beck's infomercial was a home he claimed was lost after the homeowner neglected to pay $329 in back taxes.

However, Beverly Glover, the homeowner, never actually lost posession of her home. She ultimately sold it herself for $158,000.

Dawn Zuvic and Lani Mapleson say they have each paid more than $10,000 for Beck's tutoring and have had no real estate success.

Gary Hewitt, one of the owners of the infomercial and Mentoring of America says, "We help people. We are a legitimate company."

"You're about to learn how you can start buying homes like these for just a few hundred dollars," says the announcer at the start of real estate guru John Beck’s infomercial. The infomercial airs morning, noon and night all across the country.

In it, Beck says if you send him just $39.95 he'll teach you how to buy beautiful homes for next to nothing. According to Beck, buyers can get incredible deals when people fail to pay their property taxes and the houses are auctioned off by the government.

The hostess in the infomercial says, "We could not be telling you about it on national television if it was not true."

INSIDE EDITION’s Senior Investigative Correspondent Matt Meagher went to Oklahoma where every house featured in the infomercial is located. There, with just a little digging, Meagher discovered, how Beck misleads viewers about the homes featured in the infomercial.

On his infomercial Beck boasts about how a big two story home was purchased at a tax foreclosure sale for only $521.56. However, INSIDE EDITION learned that it actually cost three times as much, which would still be an amazing deal. But what Beck didn't show is what the home really looked like when it was purchased. It was completely dilapidated and took ten years and more than $100,000 for the current owner to make it look as good as it did in the infomercial.

The current homeowner tells INSIDE EDITION the house was “pretty much…uninhabitable” when he purchased it.

Also featured on the infomercial is another dazzling house that Beck says was actually purchased for less than $100. But, that’s not true. County records show it was acquired for more that $2,200 and was a falling down piece of junk at auction. It took four years and $40,000 to fix up.

Beverly Glover was shocked when INSIDE EDITION showed her the infomercial. The infomercial implied that she lost her home because of just $329 in back taxes. Glover says, “That's a lie.”

In the infomercial, Beck claims "[Glover’s home] was purchased free and clear for only $329.90."

However, she actually never lost possession of her home. A clerical error had applied her tax payment to the wrong property. The mistake was corrected and she never left her home until she sold it for $158,000.

Butch Freeman has been treasurer of Oklahoma County, Oklahoma for 16 years. He says he has never seen homes that look like the ones in the infomercial ever sell for pennies on the dollar as Beck claims.

Freeman says that not one of the homes featured in the infomercial has sold for the price John Beck has quoted them at.

As many as 15,000 people a week cough up nearly $40 for Beck’s instructional DVDs and booklets. But that's just the beginning.

Everyone who responds to the infomercial soon gets a call from a telemarketer at a company called Mentoring of America. It's owned by the same people who own the John Beck infomercial and several others like it. This is where the company makes the real money.

Telemarketers follow a script that says the potential buyer is being considered for a select team that will be trained by John Beck himself, but that’s baloney.

The telemarketers urge people to put up to $15,000 on their credit cards to pay for private over-the-phone tutoring, and say they’re almost certain to make that money back in just a few months

Dawn Zuvic of Mississippi and Lani Maplesden from California both say they fell for the pitch.

“I know that there's always money to be made in real estate,” Maplesden tells INSIDE EDITION.

Zuvic says, “I was always hoping that eventually that I would be able to be make a good living at it.”

They each paid more than $10,000 for the tutoring and have had no success.

“It makes me cry a lot,” laughs Maplesden. “I'm still paying on the bills.”

Dawn Zuvic says her mentor talked her into buying a tiny piece of land in Pennsylvania at what was supposed to be a huge discount.

But, INSIDE EDITION found property records showing the land had been bought for only $585 and then sold to Zuvic for more than $2,595 only five months later. That wasn't a discount, it was more than a 300% markup!

The land was sold to Dawn Zuvic by none other than John Beck himself! She's never been able to resell the land and has now had to take a second job as a waitress.

Zuvic tells INSIDE EDITION, “I felt like, like I was taken.”

Bill Mitchell of the Better Business Bureau in Southern California says John Beck's infomercial has generated hundreds of complaints and the company has received an “F” rating.

“Their real business is selling blue sky, hot air,” Mitchell says.

John Beck wouldn't talk with INSIDE EDITION, but INSIDE EDITION’s Matt Meagher caught up with Gary Hewitt, one of the owners of the infomercial and Mentoring of America.

When Meagher asked Hewitt if his companies were ripping people off, he replied, “Absolutely not. We help people. We're a legitimate company.”

When Meagher asked how his companies helped people, Hewitt responded, “Why are you confronting me like this?!” He says that Mentoring of America is not a scam. “It is not [a scam]. First, first of all...you have your facts wrong.”

His attorney later supplied INSIDE EDITION with a list of 13 people who said they had a good experience with the program, earning between $550-$39,600.

But Lani Maplesden isn't convinced. She's $20,000 in debt and in danger of losing her home. She says if she could talk to John Beck, she’d ask him, “How can you sleep at night? Do you have any conscience at all?”

The company says they dispute the Better Business Bureau's ratings system and claim they work to resolve consumer complaints. As far as the houses, they say Beck never states in the infomercial that the homes were in the condition shown when purchased.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Eight Gifts that Cost Nothing

I figured with Mother's Day coming up, I would share this with everyone. It seems every holiday has turned into about spending money. I used to be asked what do I want for ____ Holiday. My answer has always been: I want us to be happy in life...and still do.
That's it, no hidden message.

Eight Gifts that Cost Nothing

1. THE GIFT OF LISTENING.
But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.

2. THE GIFT OF AFFECTION.
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

3. THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER.
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, 'I love to laugh with you.'

4. THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE.
It can be a simple 'Thanks for the help' note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.

5. THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT.
A simple and sincere, 'you look great in red,' 'you did a super job' or 'That was a wonderful meal' can make someone's day.

6. THE GIFT OF A FAVOR.
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

7. THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

8. THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION.
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You."

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

SafeLink Wireless

SafeLink Wireless: "SafeLink Wireless is a government supported program
that provides a free cell phone and airtime each
month for income-eligible customers."

Lifeline Benefits
Lifeline Assistance is part of a program that was created by the government to provide discounted or free telephone service to income-eligible consumers. To help bring you this important benefit, SafeLink Wireless is proud to offer Lifeline Service. Through our Lifeline Service you will receive FREE cellular service, a FREE cell phone, and FREE Minutes every month! SafeLink Wireless Service does not cost anything – there are no contracts, no recurring fees and no monthly charges.

Any Minutes you do not use will roll-over. Features such as caller ID, call waiting and voicemail are all also included with your service. If you need additional Minutes, you can buy TracFone Airtime Cards at any TracFone retailer Walmart, Walgreens, Family Dollar, etc). SafeLink Airtime Cards will be available soon.

Your exact benefits, including the number of free Minutes you will receive, depend on the state you live in. Please enter your ZIP code to get the details for your state.

Lifeline Benefits

Lifeline Assistance is part of a program that was created by the government to provide discounted or free telephone service to income-eligible consumers. To help bring you this important benefit, SafeLink Wireless is proud to offer Lifeline Service. Through our Lifeline Service you will receive FREE cellular service, a FREE cell phone, andFREE Minutes every month! SafeLink Wireless Service does not cost anything – there are no contracts, no recurring fees and no monthly charges.

Any Minutes you do not use will roll-over. Features such as caller ID, call waiting and voicemail are all also included with your service. If you need additional Minutes, you can buy TracFone Airtime Cards at any TracFone retailer Walmart, Walgreens, Family Dollar, etc). SafeLink Airtime Cards will be available soon.

Your exact benefits, including the number of free Minutes you will receive, depend on the state you live in. Please enter your ZIP code to get the details for your state.

Contact Information
For Customer Service

SafeLink: 1-800-378-1684 
TracFone: 1-800-867-7183 
Net10: 1-877-836-2368

Mailing Address:
TracFone Wireless, Inc.
9700 NW 112th Avenue
Miami, FL 33178

For Customer Feedback
CustomerFeedback@tracfone.com

For Customer Escalations
CustomerEscalations@tracfone.com
Or call us at: 1-800-876-5753

For Corporate Email Communications
CorporateOffice@tracfone.com

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Happy Birthday Mom

Today would have been my mother's birthday. She would have been 54 years old. Her sudden passing away still confuses me and it hurts more to know that she didn't even make it to her own birthday. 
I turned 30 in December, and she made sure to come down and celebrate my birthday with me. I wish I could have made her day as special as she did mine. 
I miss you mom, and sadly, I wish you a happy birthday.
Love, 
Jeanne

Monday, February 9, 2009

Morning Musing - Clutter on the Brain

Dear Friends,

This morning I woke up with Clutter on my brain. I got an email last
night from someone that whined that it was really hard for her to get
rid of STUFF. She thought that it must be easy for us to do this. The
truth is getting rid of clutter is hard for everyone at first. It
does get easier, but as with any new habit we are trying to
establish, we have to practice. This is why I teach you to use some
of our fun techniques to get rid of your clutter; 27 Fling Boogie or
a 5 Minute Room Rescue.

In order to get the clutter out of your home, you have to first
attack the clutter that is in your mind. Yes, our stinking thinking
is what makes us believe that we will need this someday and how could
we even possibly live without having this item in our home. The
creative people that we are, sees everything as a potential art
project. There are just some things that are plain trash. Then there
is the "Ole Poor Me" mindset that does not give yourself credit for
being able to provide for your family. This attitude is handed down
through the generations because of the struggle our grandparents had
during the great depression. There is also another side of holding
on to things! We are hoarding! Yes being selfish with our excesses by
not giving our unused items to new homes that need them. Just how
many can openers do you really need, not to mention; linens, dishes,
and furniture that is overcrowding your home. When we start to look
at this type of hoarding then we see that we can bless others with
our abundance and then when we need something, it will be provided
unto you. Your clutter is also filled with bad memories. Open up your
door and toss those bad, sad, and depressive feelings out! I want you
to smile when you walk through your home, not be reminded of sad
times.

Letting go of your clutter is difficult at first, but as you start to
see a clear area, you will be empowered to do just a little more.
Take babysteps and you will find yourself practicing the art of
FLINGing. It is so freeing to fling!

Let go of stinking thinking and FLY!

FlyLady

P.S. Donate it: Put it by the curb with a FREE sign on it. Watch it
FLY away into new homes that really do need it. The more you get rid
of the more you are going to save by not buying more clutter. As this
becomes a habit, you will notice that you are more selective about
your purchases. Just wait and see just how much money you are going
to save by not buying more clutter. Don't stash it in the garage for
that yard sale that never happens. The act of not having a yard sale
(GUILT) is harder on you than letting go of it. You will no longer
feel guilty because of that pile of clutter in your garage. Let it go!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Leave Only Love

Dear FlyLady,

I remember a testimonial from several years ago about a loving woman
who passed on and all her possessions (keepsakes) fit into one box.
The things she possessed were minimal but the relationships and love
she shared with others was endless. This past weekend I was in a home
with the mother and sister of a person who passed on with a house full
of possessions, some things never used, some obvious junk that was
just never thrown away and a few (like photographs and some furniture)
keepsakes.

It was very sad to see this family struggle with the burden of this
loss and the burden and confusion of all this STUFF.

So this February, I'm going to try very hard to fling as much as
possible. I'm going to start asking myself, "If I could only have one
box to leave behind, what would be in it?"

I never want my children to have to go through decades of receipts,
mountains of paper clutter or try to figure out what to do with things
I don't use, love or really have a home for now much less whenever I
pass on. When I do pass away, I don't want my home to filled with tons
clutter but tons of fun and loving memories and only a few keepsakes.

Thanks so much for having February be super Fling habit month, clutter
accumulates every day and being reminded to only hold on to things we
love, use and have homes for is a great gift.

Love to you and all FlyBabies everywhere,

FlybabyM


FlyLady here: Here is the testimonial that FlyBaby M is referring to:

Dear FlyLady,

My elderly cousin died Wednesday night. I went to her funeral
today. The church was packed. Everyone from teenagers to old people
was grieving. The funeral singers couldn't sing because of their
grief. The preacher got choked up talking about her and almost
couldn't go on.

Everyone was talking about her many kindnesses, how
she helped so many people, touched so many lives--in spite of
various infirmities and having so little in the way of financial
resources. I kept remembering how I always felt so welcome when I
visited her in the house she shared with her sister, and how much I
was going to miss knowing that welcome and encouragement was always
there.

Then, her nephew got up to speak about her, and he mentioned that
when they'd gone into her little bedroom, you could pack up every
worldly possession she owned, and it would fit into the trunk of a
normal size car...with space left over.

And I thought--ahh, so that was part of her secret. She lavished her
time on all of us, instead of investing it in things.

Then I came home and read the Saturday FlyLady rant about our clutter
sucking the life out of us, and agreed with all my heart. I believe
there is a direct correlation between the clutter (of all kinds) in
our lives and the good, kind things we never have the time to do.

I have a goal now that reaches beyond the occasional 27 fling boogie
(although that's a good start.) I'm wondering if it might be
possible even for a packrat like me, to come to the end of my life
with only enough possessions to fill the trunk of a car...but with a
church and community packed with people whose lives I've touched.

Limping along, in Ohio

Monday, January 12, 2009

National Constitution Center; The Story Of We, The People.

National Constitution Center September 2008 eNews

January is filled with events that celebrate the upcoming presidential inauguration, Martin Luther King, Jr. Day and the world premiere of the America I AM: The African American Imprint exhibition. Visit our January events calendar for a complete listing of activities and programs.

The Center will host the world premiere of Tavis Smiley’s America I AM: The African American Imprint. This new exhibition opens on January 15, 2009 and celebrates the impact African Americans have had on our history over the past 500 years.

On Tuesday, January 20th celebrate the constitutional right of every American president – the presidential inauguration. Bring the kids and enjoy programs and events to share this special day with your family.

Are you currently a National Constitution Center member? Visit the Member’s Corner of the newsletter to find out about exclusive members only offers and events such as VIP tickets to see America I AM.

Constitution Day: September 17

Don't Miss the World Premiere of America I AM: The African American Imprint

Premieres on January 15, 2009

Celebrate the indelible contributions on our nation with this new exhibition that tells the story of courage, conviction, and creativity of the African American community. Explore 12 galleries with multimedia components, photos, music, and personal stories.

Over 200 artifacts create a truly engaging, inspiring, and unique experience for everyone. Artifacts include "The Doors of No Return" from the Cape Coast Castle in Ghana, Malcolm X's diary and personal Koran, the door key and stool from the Birmingham jail cell that held Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and more!

Purchase your tickets online now!

AIN’T MISBEHAVIN’
Discount Ticket Offer
January 9 - January 11, 2009
The Academy of Music

It’s been 30 years since AIN’T MISBEHAVIN’, Broadway’s smash-hit Fats Waller musical revue won six Tony Awards® including Best New Musical. Now, Richard Maltby, Jr., Tony Award®-winning author and director of the 1978 premiere Broadway production, will re-create his original direction for the 2008/09 30th Anniversary National Tour. Ruben Studdard, the 2003 American Idol Winner, joins a top-notch cast with a sassy all-star band live onstage.

Purchase your tickets at the special rate of $45 per ticket today!

Visit www.kimmelcenter.org/broadway or call 215.731.3333 to take advantage of this special offer. Be sure to mention the special offer code: RUBEN.

Discount is a 35% savings on all performances and sections EXCLUDING box seats. Not valid on previously purchased tickets and cannot be combined with any other offer. No exchanges or refunds. Restrictions may apply

Member’s Corner

Just announced — Members will have a special VIP entrance into our upcoming exhibit, America I AM: The African American Imprint, moving them to the front of the line for the next available entry time!

REMINDER
Members - only viewing times of America I AM:
Sunday, January 18, 9:00 a.m. - Noon
Monday, January 19, 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.


Take advantage of seeing this fascinating exhibit without the crowds.

National Constitution Center Podcasts
We The People Stories — New Podcasts



PlayHow Would You Address America?
As part of the Center's online initiative "Address America: Six Words to Inspire A Nation," journalist and author Robert Schlesinger moderates a conversation with former presidential speechwriters Mary Kate Cary and Terry Edmonds about the ideas, themes, and values the American public wishes to hear included in President-elect Barack Obama's Inaugural Address.

Play The Legacy of 1808: Delta Blues
The Center welcomes musician and historian Ted Gioia for a program featuring recordings from the Mississippi Delta.

Play 2008/2012: Where We've Been, Where We're Headed
Ezra Klein and Reihan Salam, rising stars in Democratic and Republican circles, join moderator David Mark to reflect on the most important presidential election in a generation and to look ahead at what the new president will do once in office.

See the National Constitution Center's recent programs on FORAtv.

January Events & Programs


FEATURED PROGRAM
George McGovern on Abraham Lincoln
Tuesday, January 13
6:30 p.m.
Program Admission: $9 members $15 non-members, $7 students and teachers
Reservations required at 215.409.6700


In his new book on the 16th president, former U.S. Senator George McGovern writes that Lincoln’s presidency is the hinge on which American history pivots - the time when the young republic collapsed of its own contradictions and a new birth of freedom, sanctified by blood, created the United States we know today.

The Exchange: Is the Constitution Colorblind?
Wednesday, January 14
1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.
This event is open to school groups only. The public is invited to watch a live webcast.


Students deliberate the question: Is the Constitution color-blind? The concept of a color-blind Constitution was first used to dismantle legal discrimination against African Americans in the 19th century and is now at the forefront of the debate over affirmative action.

A Celebration of Firsts
January 17 and 18
11:30 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.
January 20
10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
Program Admission: FREE
with museum admission

Celebrate the presidential inauguration and swearing-in of the first African American president. Visitors can enjoy Inauguration Day events on January 20th including the chance to take the Oath of Office, watch the ceremony, make presidential seals, and have a photo taken with a cutout of President-elect Obama during an exciting scavenger hunt.

Martin Luther King, Jr. Day of Service
Monday, January 19
10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.
Event Admission FREE


In honor of the life and legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr., the Center will participate in a city-wide celebration. Visitors of all ages can enjoy activities, including talkback boards, crafts, choirs, famous speeches from civil rights activists, and musical and dramatic performances.

Inauguration Day Celebration
Tuesday, January 20
10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
Event Admission: FREE with museum admission


Celebrate Inauguration Day with the family and participate in the
Breaking Barriers show to learn about Thurgood Marshall, Bessie Coleman, Jackie Robinson, and other extraordinary African Americans throughout history.

From Revolution to Evolution
Tuesday, January 20
10:30 a.m.
Program Admission: FREE
Reservations Required: 215.409.6700

In partnership with Art Sanctuary, the Center will present a discussion of the Civil Rights revolution that led to the evolution of America's current president. The discussion will explore the influence of Martin Luther King, Jr.; President-elect Obama’s book, The Audacity of Hope; and the connections to the America I AM exhibition.

The Future of the Republican Party
Monday, January 26
6:30 p.m.
Program Admission: FREE
Reservations Required: 215.409.6700

With the Democratic party in control of the presidency, the Congress and many state houses across the country, the Republican party finds itself out of power and searching for an identity and new leadership for the first time since President Carter’s election in 1976. Join the Center for a conversation with party insiders and observers.

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